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I'm so sad!


Post Posted Sat Apr 01, 2006 2:21 pm
Elisabeth


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.....because of the situation here in Norway.Its too easy to say a child has ADHD,too many things can go wrong when they to to find it out,cause it's a complex case!

Children are impulsive and hyper and they also have an emotional life,and things can easy bring them out of control if they dont feel comfortable!
Also the food they eat can make them hyper.

Its too easy here in Norway to give all these children Ritalin,these two last ears its so many children who use this dangerious drog.
And I worry about how this will end.

I have a lot to say about this case....

I also talked to a doctor who worked with these children,and he did realize they dont know too much about it!

Have anyone of you been thinking about this problem?

Does Ritalin change these children to 'vegetables'?
Post Posted Sat Apr 01, 2006 3:10 pm
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Well,maybe its nothing more to say about this............anyway I feel sadness and anger!!! :x

Today its not popular to take real care of the children just give them unhealthy food,and then drogs.........then feel good!,less work to do for them!! :cry: :x

Tur :evil:

(Maybe I sound very upset,and I am after reading also this news about Ritalin):

http://www.breggin.com/newyorktimes.html
Post Posted Sat Apr 01, 2006 7:21 pm
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The most idiotic is that too many adults expect children to behave too much like adults
yet the adults themselves bahave far more childishly than children.

The whole point of beoing a child is to behave like ... belive or not ... a CHILD.
Yes thats right a CHILD.

Such a simple fundamnetal fact yet these so called "parents" are
too stupid to understand it.
Too wrapped up in themselevs, too much putting their own needs first.


These so called "parents" want to make their children into vegetables & sheep.
They also then destroy the creative spark, the individualness of the child
with drugs ala ritalin.

Would these "parents" like it if they were turned into vegetables?
Would they like it if someeone destroyed their creative individual spark?

These people are Not fit to be parents.
They are more like paedophiles in what they do to children.
Post Posted Sat Apr 01, 2006 9:17 pm
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Its important to respect the parents,we are all different,anyway the problem is that many parents do believe the right thing is to do what the doctors say.They also do believe that what they do is right.

Some parents dont have the strength to solve the problems the right way cause of many reasons.

Some parents own no respect for drog and medicines,and do believe a little pill can solve all kind of problems!!

I am most of all upset cause of the whole system,there is no respect for the life,and no respect for the children who grow up today!!

Best wishes Tur
Post Posted Sat Apr 01, 2006 11:59 pm
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I do have something to say about this subject, but just not right now.. getting too late... and I can't think properly now anyway :lol:
Post Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 8:13 pm
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If kids get a maximum 1 hour TV each day, not being given candies all day of the week and if you can get them to eat healthy food instead of hamburgers at McDonalds or such things. More then half of the kids with ADHD would disapear. Because sometimes you as a parent are too nice to your kids. And when those kids grow up they do not know what discipline is what so ever. If you take the responsibility as a parent very seriously and treat the child or children good but with rules you get good results. Unfortunately many people gets kids even without thinking about the fact that it takes loads of time to get them to be good people.

Even if I hate the chientology church I think that their ideas of ADHD are quite good.

Take it from someone who knows a bit of this herself.

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Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 8:14 am
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ADHD is a load of bullshit. I've been bullied a lot by kids with "ADHD" and people say they can't help it? Bullshit. It's the parents' fault for bringing them up that way.
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:11 am
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jarrekid wrote:ADHD is a load of bullshit. I've been bullied a lot by kids with "ADHD" and people say they can't help it? Bullshit. It's the parents' fault for bringing them up that way.
Indeed. On one side it's a trend: years ago everybody needed braces (at least here in NL) then everybody would have one's tonsils out (at least here in NL) and now everybody is having ADHD. Those kids just have a little lack of attention or they just don't know how to behave themselves.

On the other hand it's just used as a lame excuse. Kids have all freedom to behave as strange as possible, just because they are said to have ADHD; not the other way round!!

I think a real small part of all those ADHD kids are really having a problem, and the others well... :roll:
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:17 am
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It's simple; some people just shouldn't have any kids!
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:24 am
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GeeJee wrote:
jarrekid wrote:ADHD is a load of bullshit. I've been bullied a lot by kids with "ADHD" and people say they can't help it? Bullshit. It's the parents' fault for bringing them up that way.
Indeed. On one side it's a trend: years ago everybody needed braces (at least here in NL) then everybody would have one's tonsils out (at least here in NL) and now everybody is having ADHD. Those kids just have a little lack of attention or they just don't know how to behave themselves.

On the other hand it's just used as a lame excuse. Kids have all freedom to behave as strange as possible, just because they are said to have ADHD; not the other way round!!

I think a real small part of all those ADHD kids are really having a problem, and the others well... :roll:
Next, you'll get the chavs. :shock: :x :cry:
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:25 am
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"Happy slapping" has just appeared in Denmark. :roll:
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:26 am
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jarrekid wrote:Next, you'll get the chavs. :shock: :x :cry:
Rephrase? :roll:
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:33 am
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GeeJee wrote:
jarrekid wrote:Next, you'll get the chavs. :shock: :x :cry:
Rephrase? :roll:
Chavs will start appearing!!!!
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:35 am
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Hehehe... I think it's the chavs he don't get?
Post Posted Mon Apr 10, 2006 10:52 am
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Exzaktly. :? :P







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